Alternatives to TraditionTraditional funerals tend to blend two aspects of saying good-bye, a funeral ceremony to pay tribute and the disposition of the physical remains. The timing and order of these elements can be far more flexible these days, especially when a cremation has taken place. Disposition of the remains can be held separately from the hosting of a reception that is open to extended family, friends and colleagues.
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Choose a meaningful location Memorial or tribute receptions can be planned for a location that has meaning for the family, or simply at a location your loved one would have appreciated. Consider a favourite restaurant, golf club, theatre, community centre or the family cottage. A ceremony planned for a meaningful location provides an opportunity for people to participate, reflect and enjoy their memories in a guided fashion. It can help set the preferred tone for the overall reception.
Dedication events Consider a dedication ceremony. Gather where you chose to plant a tree or have designated a park bench in the honour of your loved one. A ceremony at this time provides an opportunity to pay tribute and marks a tangible transition point for saying good-bye.
Tribute Ceremonies A tribute ceremony can mark an anniversary of a loss or an individual’s birth-date. A ceremony at such a time can be just as heart-felt and can focus on how the individual has lived-on in the lives of others. Scattering of Ashes Ceremonies for these events can be more intimate with fewer people attending the ceremony. They are crafted to provide the same opportunity to say good-bye and to pay tribute to your loved one. |
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Cyndy Neilly-Spence, Master Life-Cycle Celebrant® 416 559 6230 cneilly@bell.net
Serving the Greater Toronto Area
Serving the Greater Toronto Area